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Be Patient - Be Good to Your Mother
Be Patient - Be Good to Your Mother
I would like to present to your eminence a problem that my brothers and myself have with my mother. Her bad behavior often causes us not to treat her properly. We are fearful of Allah in this matter because we don't want to be undutiful and as a result lose out in this life and in the next due to her Shaytanic plots. She often criticizes our religious dedication and calls us "Mutaw'ah" even though she has herself memorized the last thirtieth of the Qur'an, and regularly fasts on mondays, Thrusdays, three days every moneth and performs other kinds of voluntary prayer and fasting. Even when we performed Hajj, before we began the return journey she returned to causing, abusing and beating us to such a degree that she cursed our honor, integrity and supplicated with prayers against us the likes of which no mother would utter against her own sons. We often hope to be free of her or for us to die, just so we can be saved from her evil. The situation only goes from bad to worse. O noble Shaikh, what can we do with our mother and how do we make a just balance between her behavior and our lives?

Tags : sabar, patient, sulaah rehmi, good, maa, mother
Sabar Karo Aur Apni Maa Sy Sulaah Rehmi Karo
Sabar Karo Aur Apni Maa Sy Sulaah Rehmi Karo
Main apki khidmat mein apni aur apny bhaiyu ki apni waldah k sath mushkil sorat-e-haal ko paish krta hoon. baat yh hai k waldah is qadar kasrat sy humen ta'an-o-tashne'e krti aur bury andaaz mein paish aati hain' jis ki waja sy hum sy bhi badtamizi ho jati hai' hum Allah ta'ala sy darty hain aur hum yh bhi nahi chahty k apni waldah k nafarman qarar payen ya apny un shetani aamaal ki waja sy dunia-o-akhrat mein khasaraah pany walo mein sy ho jayen. deeni aihkaam ki pabandi ki waja sy waldah humen ta'an-o-tashne'e krti rehti hain aur "molviyu" k naam sy humen pukarti hain' halaan k unhuny khud bhi teesvay pary ki bohat si sorten hifaz kr rakhi hain. somwaar aur jumerat k elawah hr mahiny k 3 nafil rozay bhi rakhti hain' naiz us k elawah nafil namazen ada krti aur nafil rozay bhi rakhti hain. hum apny bhai k sath jb safar hajj pr rawana hony lagy to us wqt bhi unhuny humen ta'an-o-tashne'e ki ' galiyaan den aur mara peeta aur woh hamary hasab-e-nasab mein ta'an krti aur hamari ezzat pamaal krti hain aur humen aisi aisi bad duayen deti rehti hain k koi maa apny bachu ko is tarha ki bad duayen nahi dy sakti. jis ki waja sy hamara dill chahta hai k hum ussy chor kr kahiin aur chaly jayen ya phir humen mout hi aa jaye ta k us k shar sy bach jayen aur ab sorat-e-haal bad sy bad tar hoti chali ja rahi hai---- fazilat al sheikh! humen apni waldah k sath kia krna chaheye? waldah k us taraz-e-amal aur apni zindagi k hawala sy hum kia tareeq kar ikhteyar karen?

Tags : sabar, patient, sulaah rehmi, good, maa, mother
Inviting Others to Something that You are not Able to Practice Yourself
Inviting Others to Something that You are not Able to Practice Yourself
If after repeated attempts, a person is not able to apply something that he exhorts others to do, is it still permissible for him to call others to do that action? What if he does so supposing that the person he is calling will be able to apply what he failed to apply himself?

Tags : neki, good, dawat, invite, amal, practice
Jo Shakhs Dawat Deta Lekin Khud Amal Na Ker Sakta Ho
Jo Shakhs Dawat Deta Lekin Khud Amal Na Ker Sakta Ho
aik dai dawat to deta hai lekin koshish k bawajod khud amal ki taqat nahi rakhta' lekin is khayal sy woh dawat deta hai k shayed madu'o is pr amal kr lay to kia is sorat mai woh dawat dy ya nahi?

Tags : neki, good, dawat, invite, amal, practice
The Ruling One Who Thinks that Right is Wrong and Wrong is Right
The Ruling One Who Thinks that Right is Wrong and Wrong is Right
What is your opinion about people whose judgements have become perverse: they deem evil to be good, and good to be evil?

Tags : burai, evil, neki, good, tasawrrat, judgements
Jo Shakhs Burai Ko Neki Aur Neki Ko Burai Samjhta Ho
Jo Shakhs Burai Ko Neki Aur Neki Ko Burai Samjhta Ho
un logo k bary mai app ki kia rai hai' jin k tasawrrat hi badal gaye hoon aur woh neki ko burai aur burai ko neki tasawwur krny lag gaye hoon?

Tags : burai, evil, neki, good, tasawrrat, judgements
The Best Way to Command and Forbid Evil
The Best Way to Command and Forbid Evil
What are the different levels of commanding good and forbidding evil? Some people say that removing an evil can result in evil greater than the original evil. Should one give Da'wah in coffee shops and other similar places? What is the best way of ordering to good and forbidding from evil?

Tags : neki, good, burai, evil, behtreen tarika, best way
Neki Ka Hukam Deny Aur Burai Sy Mana'a Kerny Ka Behtreen Tarika
Neki Ka Hukam Deny Aur Burai Sy Mana'a Kerny Ka Behtreen Tarika
aik saeel nay amar bilma'aroof aur nahi aanil munkir k muratib k bary mai pocha hai aur yh k baz logo k baqol basa oqaat us ka natija ziadah bari kharabi ki sorat mai zahir hota hai' kia insaan qehwaah khano aur hotalo wagaira mai bhi dawat illallah ka kaam kr sakta hai? Amar bil ma'aroof aur nahi aanil munkir ka behreen tarika kia hai?

Tags : neki, good, burai, evil, behtreen tarika, best way

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