Woh Apni Maa Ko To Deta Hai Lekin Baap Ko Nahi Deta


Question :
Mai mahekma fouj mai mulazim houn aur mujhy bohat achi tankhuwah milti hai' jis mai sy kuch tankhuwah mai apni waldah ki khidmat mai paish krta hoon' Qk Mazi mai unhuny mujh pr kherch kia tha mager mai apny walid ko kuch nahi deta Qk unhuny mujh pr hatta k mery bachpan mai bhi kabhi kuch kherch nahi kia tha. kia us ka mujhy koi gunaah hoga?

Answer :
Walden sy neki aur bhalai bohat ahem fariza hai ' khuwah unhuny app pr bachpan mai kuch bhi kherch na kia ho' irshad bari ta'ala hai:
aur tumhary perverdigar ny yh faisla kr dia hai k tum us k siwa kisi ki ebadat na karo aur maa baap k sath neki krty raho.
"aur tumhary perverdigar ny yh faisla kr dia hai k tum us k siwa kisi ki ebadat na karo aur maa baap k sath neki krty raho."
Al-Isra' 17:23.
Naiz farmaya:
mera bhi shukar kerta reh aur apny maa baap ka bhi (k tum ko) meri hi taraf lout kr ana hai.
"mera bhi shukar kerta reh aur apny maa baap ka bhi (k tum ko) meri hi taraf lout kr ana hai."
Luqman 31: 14.
App pr wajib hai k apny baap sy bhalai karen' fail-o-qoul mai un sy hussan salook ka mamla karen aur ager woh zarorat mand ho to app apni tankhuwah mai sy ussy is qadar dy den jis sy apko aur app k bivi bachu ko noqsaan na pohanchy' Qk Nabi S.A.W ny farmaya hai:
na takleef dena (jaiz hai) na kisi ki takleef dahi mai sabab banda.
"na takleef dena (jaiz hai) na kisi ki takleef dahi mai sabab banda."
Ibn Majah no. 2340, 2341.
Baap ko yh haq hasil hai k woh hasab zarorat app sy maal ka mutalba kery' jab k app k pass apni zarorat sy ziadah maal ho ' Qk Nabi S.A.W ka farman hai:
pakeezah maal jissy tum khaty ho woh hai jissy tum ny kamaya ho aur bilashuba tumhari olaad bhi tumhari kamai hai.
"pakeezah maal jissy tum khaty ho woh hai jissy tum ny kamaya ho aur bilashuba tumhari olaad bhi tumhari kamai hai."
Abu Dawud no. 3528 and At-Tirmithi no. 1358.
Hum apko nasihet krty hain k apny walden k sath neki karen' un k sath bhalai aur ehsaan mai koi kasar utha na rakhen aur un ki raza ko hasil krny ki puri puri koshish karen' Nabi S.A.W ny farmaya hai:
Rab ki raza walid ki raza mai aur us ki narazi walid ki narazi mai hai.
"Rab ki raza walid ki raza mai aur us ki narazi walid ki narazi mai hai."
At-Tirmithi no. 1899.
Allah ta'ala hum sab ko tufeeq ata farmaye.
Sheikh Ibn Baz



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