Shadi k liye Munasib Umer


Question :
Mard-o-Orat k liye shadi kerny ki munasib umer kia hai' baz orten apny sy bari umer k mardo aur baz mard apni umer sy bari orto k sath shadi kerna pasand nahi kerty lehaza umeed hai k app is sawal ka jawab ata farmayen gay. Jazakum Allah kheran.-

Answer :
mai orto ko yh wasiyet kerta hoon k woh kisi mard k sath shadi kerny sy mahez is liye inkar na karen k woh umer mai is sy 10 ya 20 ya 30 saal bara hai kyun k umer mai bara hona koi uzer nahi hai ' Nabi akram S.A.W ny jab hazrat aisha R.A. sy shadi ki to App S.A.W ki umer 53 saal aur Hazrat Aisha R.A. ki umer 9 saal thi lehaza umer mai bara hona shadi k liye noqsan dah nahi hai' is mai bhi koi harj nahi k orat ki umer ziadah ho aur is mai bhi koi harj nahi k mard ki umar ziadah ho kyun k Nabi Akram S.A.W ny jab Hazrat Aisha R.A. sy shadi ki to App S.A.W ki umer shareef sirf 25 burs thi jab k HAzrat Khadija R.A. app S.A.W sy umer mai 15 burs bari thin aur Hazrat Aisha R.A. sy app S.A.W ny jab shadi ki to un ki umer choti thi yani woh sirf 6 ya 7 burs ki thin aur jab rukhsati howi to un ki umer 9 burs thi aur app S.A.W ki umer mubarak us wqt 53 burs thi. aksar log jo radio aur television per baten kerty aur mian bivi ki umer k tafavut sy nafrat dilaty hain to in ki yh bat galt hai inhen aisi baten kerny ka haq nahi hai. kyun k wajib yh hai k orat yh dekhy ager shohar saleh aur munasib hai to woh is sy shadi per amadgi ka izhar ker dy khuwah woh is sy umer mai bara ho' issi tarha mard ko bhi chaheye k woh naik aur deen dar orat ko tarjeeh dy khuwah woh umar mai is sy bari ho ba shart yh k shabab aur anjaab (bacha peda kerny ki slahiyet) ki umer ho hasil kalaam yh hai k mard ya orat ager naik houn to umer ki kami beshi ko uzer ya aib qarar nahi dena chaheye. Allah ta'ala hum sab ki islaah aihwal farmaye.
Shaikh Ibn Baz



Tags : shadi, marriage, munasib umer, suitable age, mard aur orat, man and woman
 
 

This question is on 122 page in Fatawa Islamiyah book.


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