March 2016 Archive


Preferring Some Children Over Others
Preferring Some Children Over Others
Is it allowed for a mother to treat one of her children or grandchildren more favorably than the others, even though they all treat her the same?

Tags : walden, parents, olaad, children, tarjeeh, prefer
Olaad Mein Tarjeeh
Olaad Mein Tarjeeh
Kia orat k liye yh jaiz hai k woh apny kisi aik bety sy ziadah garam joshi sy paish aye' jab k us k tamam bety us sy yaksaa mamla krty houn ya apny potu mai sy kisi aik sy terjeeh ka salook kery jab k woh sab us sy yaksaa mamla krty houn rehnumai farmayen. Jazakum Allah hu kheran.

Tags : walden, parents, olaad, children, tarjeeh, prefer
Relations are not Severed to Please People
Relations are not Severed to Please People
I have two sisters who both married our uncle's (father's brother) sons. Relations became strained between our family and our uncle's family, to the extent that my brother refuses to visit our two sisters. Just to keep him happy, my mother also stopped visiting them. What is the ruling in this situation?

Tags : logo, people, qataa rehmi, rishtay, relations
Logon Ki Waja Sy Qata'a Rehmi Nahi Kerni Chaheye
Logon Ki Waja Sy Qata'a Rehmi Nahi Kerni Chaheye
meri do behnay hain' jin ki chacha k beto sy shadi howi hai. ab dono gharo mein is qadar ikhtalafaat peda ho gaye hain k un ki waja sy aik dosry k ghar ana jana bhi khatam hogya hai. mery bhai ny dono behno k ghar ana jana chor dia hai aur bhai ki waja sy waldah ny bhi ana jana chor dia hai ta k woh naraaz na ho' to us k bary mein kia hukam hai?

Tags : logo, people, qataa rehmi, rishtay, relations
Visit Your Mother
Visit Your Mother
I am a young man, eighteen years of age; I perform the Salah and do what I can to be dutiful and obeient to my father. But since I was born, until this day, I have never seen my mother. Recently, I found out where she lives, but it is far away. I want to go and see her because she is my mother and because Allah will hold me to account if I don't visit her. I am afraid, though, that if I tell my father that I intend to visit her, he will become angry since he divorced her. I really fear that this might happen, particularly because he married another woman and has a number of children from her. What is the Shari'ah ruling on my situation?

Tags : maa, mother, walid, father, raza mandi-o-etat, dutiful and obeient
Apni Maa Sy Sulaah Rehmi Karo
Apni Maa Sy Sulaah Rehmi Karo
mai 18 burs ka aik nojawan hoon. namaz ada krta hoon aur apny walid ki raza mandi-o-etat k kaam bhi krta houn' lekin mai ny apni viladat sy lay kr ab tk apni waldah ko nahi dekha lekin janta hon k woh ab kahan muqeem hai. woh hum sy bohat dur rehti hai. mery walid btaya hai k us ny ussy talaq dy di thi. mai apni waldah ko dekhna chahta hoon' Qk mujhy dar hai k ager mai ny apni waldah sy mulaqaat na ki to Allah ta'ala mera muhasba kery ga. lekin mai ny apny walid sy us bat ka ziker nahi kia k mai apni waldah ko dekhna chahta hoon Qk mujhy dar hai k ager mai ny us ka ziker kia to woh naraaz houn gay. mery walid sahib nay aik aur orat sy shadi kr li hai aur us k batan sy un k kai bachay bhi hain. meri is halat mai k bary hukam shariyet kia hai?

Tags : maa, mother, walid, father, raza mandi-o-etat, dutiful and obeient
It is Obligatory to Strive to Please One's Parents
It is Obligatory to Strive to Please One's Parents
My friend asks, "My mother is quick to become angry; she supplicates often against myself and my brother, especially when she is waking them up from sleep. She sometimes supplicates against me during the times when supplications are answered. I try to be dutiful to her, but her harshness sometimes pushes me to disobey her. Am I sinning despite the fact that she is causing me to disobey her? And is a mother's prayer answered if she prays against her children without a reason to do so? May Allah reward with goodness."

Tags : wajib, obligatory, walden, parents, bhalai, kind
Wajib Hai K Walden Sy Khub Bhalai Ki Jaye
Wajib Hai K Walden Sy Khub Bhalai Ki Jaye
Meri aik saheli ka kehna hai k us ki waldah bohat jald gussay mai aajati hai aur ussy aur us k bhaiyu ko bohat bad duayen deti hai aur khas tur pr subha bedar krty wqt to bohat bad duayen deti hai aur phir basa oqaat qaboliyet dua k oqaat mai bhi bad duayen deti hai' lekin yh saheli apni waldah k sath neki aur bhalai ki koshish krti hai mager apni maa k sakht raviya ki waja sy kabhi kabhi us ki nafarmani bhi kr bethi hai to kia is sorat mai yh gunaah gar hogi' haanlaan k nafarmani ka sabab khud us ki maa hi hoti hai aur ager maa bilawaja apny bachu ko baddua dy to kia woh qabool hojati hai? umeed hai rehnumai farmayen gay. Jazakum Allah kheran.

Tags : wajib, obligatory, walden, parents, bhalai, kind
My Father Orders Me to Buy Cigarettes for Him
My Father Orders Me to Buy Cigarettes for Him
As my father has only me around to help him, he asks me to go and buy cigarettes for him. If I refuse to obey him, he becomes angry and frustrated. For my part, I hate bringing cigarettes for him because I know that smoking is unlawful. Please advise me.

Tags : walid, father, cigarette, haraam, unlawful
Mera Walid Cigarette Kharidny Ka Hukam Deta Hai
Mera Walid Cigarette Kharidny Ka Hukam Deta Hai
Mery walid k pass mery elawah koi aur nahi hota lehaza woh mujhy hukam dety hain k main un k liye Cigarette laoun. ager main un ki bat na mano to woh naraaz ho jaty hain aur mery bary mein tang hojaty hain' mager Main Cigarette  paish krny ko sakht napasand krta hoon' Qk mujhy maloom hai k yh haraam hai. mujhy fatwa den k mai kia karon? Allah ta'ala apko ajar-o-sawab ata farmaye.

Tags : walid, father, cigarette, haraam, unlawful

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