October 2014 Archive


Shadi ki Yadgar ki Munasbat sy Tuhfa
Shadi ki Yadgar ki Munasbat sy Tuhfa
kia shohar k liye yh jaiz hai k woh hr saal apni shadi k din piyar-o-mohabbat ki tajdid k liye apni bivi ko koi tuhfa dy' yad rahy yh yadgar sirf tuhfa tak hi mehdod hogi aur is munasbat sy kisi ijtama'a ka ineqad nahi hoga?

Tags : shadi ki yadgar, wedding anniversary, munasbat, occasion, tuhfa, gift
The Ruling on Giving a Gift on the Occasion of the Wedding Anniversary
The Ruling on Giving a Gift on the Occasion of the Wedding Anniversary
Is it permissible for a husband to give a gift to his wife on the occasion of their wedding anniversary every year, in order to renew the affection and love between them. Bear in mind, that the remembrance is confirmed only to giving a gift, and the spouse do not hold a celebration on this occasion?

Tags : shadi ki yadgar, wedding anniversary, munasbat, occasion, tuhfa, gift
Dastur k Mutabiq Moashrat Wajib Hai
Dastur k Mutabiq Moashrat Wajib Hai
baz nojawan' Allah ta'ala inhen hadayat dy' deeni aihkaam ki pabandi k bawajod apni biviyu sy dastur k mutabiq zindagi basar nahi kerty aur apna wqt aisy bohat sy kamo mai sirf krty hain jin ka parhai ya kaam sy ta'aluq hota hai jab k bivi ghar mai tanha ya bachu k sath kai kai ghanty guzarti hai to is masla mai app kia farmayen gay kia ilm-o-amal k liye bivi ka wqt kherch kia ja sakta hai?

Tags : moashrat, living with wife, wajib, obligation
It is an Obligation to Live With Wife in Kindness
It is an Obligation to Live With Wife in Kindness
Some young men - may Allah guide them - who are religious do not live with their wives in kindness. They spend much of their time doing things related to their studies or their work and they leave their wives alone or with their children in the house for long hours, citing work or study as the reason. What does your Eminence have to say about this, and should studying and work be done on the wife's time? Benefit us (with advice) and may Allah benefit you.

Tags : moashrat, living with wife, wajib, obligation
Dastur k Mutabiq Moashrat
Dastur k Mutabiq Moashrat
meri taqriban 25 saal pehly shadi howi thi' mery kai bety aur betiyaan hain lekin mujhy apny shohar ki tarf sy bohat si mushkilaat ka samna hai' woh mery bachu aur dour nazdeek k rishtadaro k samny bilawaja mery beezzati kerta hai aur kabhi bhi mery ezzat afzai nahi kerta aur mai sirf us wqt sakoon mehsos kerti hoon jab woh ghar sy bahir nikal jata hai halaan k yh admi namaz rozay ka bhi paband hai. umeed hai app sahi rehnumai farmayen gay. jazak um Allah kheran.

Tags : mian bivi, spouse, mushkilaat, problems, beezzati kerna, humiliate
Living Honorably with Spouse
Living Honorably with Spouse
I am a married woman since 25 years ago. I have many sons and daughters, and I have a lot of problems with my husband. He often humiliate me before my kids and my relatives, whether near relatives or far ones. And he never respects me for no reason that makes me relived when he is not at home. Even though this man prays and fears Allah. Please guide me to the right path, may Allah reward you with good.

Tags : mian bivi, spouse, mushkilaat, problems, beezzati kerna, humiliate
Mera Shohar Bilawaja Mujhy Napasand Kerta Hai
Mera Shohar Bilawaja Mujhy Napasand Kerta Hai
mai is umeed sy ap ki khidmat mai apni aik mushkil paish kr rahi hoon k app mujhy is ka hal btayen gay' meri mushkil ka khulasa yh hai k mera shohar--- Allah issy maf farmaye--- ikhlaq fazla aur khashiyet elahi k bawajod ghar mai qatan meri tarf tawajja nahi deta balky is k chehray per hamesha gussa aur is ka seena tang hota hai aur woh kehta hai k is ka sabab bhi khud mai houn halaan k Allah janta hai k mai is k haqoq ada kerti hoon' issy rahat-o-araam pohanchati hoon' hr us chez ko is sy dour kerti hoon' jo issy buri lagti ho 'mery sath is ki jo ziadatiyaa hain' in per sabar krti hoon lekin mai is sy jab bhi kisi chez k bary mai pochti ya bat krti hoon to woh gussay k mary bharak uthta hai aur woh kehta hai k tumhari guftagu behoda hai apny dosto aur sathiyu k sath woh hans mukh aur milansar hai lekin mujhy hamesha dant dapt aur badsalooki hi ka samna krna parta hai jis ki waja sy mujhy bohat takleef hai' balky meri zindagi azaab ban chuki hai.
mai ny kai dafa'a socha hai kis ghar hi ko kher bad keh doon. meri ta'aleem bhi mastwast darjay ki hai aur Alhumdulillah mai apny wajibaat bhi ada kerti hoon' samat alshaikh !mujhy btayen k ager mai ghar chor doon' apny bachu ki khdu tarbiyet karon aur tanha zindagi ki mushkilaat ko bardasht karon to kia mai gunaah gar hon gi ya inhi halaat mai apny shohar k sath guzarah karon aur is k sath kalaam sy aur mushkilat mai shirket aur in k aihsasaat sy apny apko alag thalag rakhon?

Tags : shohar, husband, bivi, wife, bilawaja napasand kerna, hates for no reason
My Husband Hates Me for no Reason
My Husband Hates Me for no Reason
I am sending you this problem hoping to find a solution. In short, the cause of my problem is my husband - may Allah pardon him. Although he is committed to noble manners and he fears Allah, nevertheless he never takes care of me at home. He is always putting on a gloomy face and is very short tempered. It might come to your mind that I am the cause, but Allah knows that by His Grace that I fulfill at that brings comfort and tranquility to him an leave out all that offends him. I remain sober on his indifference, and whenever I ask him anything or talked to him about my subject, then he become instantly angry and outraged and respond that I talk nonsense, and that I am foolish. On the other hand when he is with his pals and colleagues, he is very friendly and ever smiling. This ill treatment hurts me and torture me and push me to abandon the house.
As for me, I am a woman of average education and I carry our all the duties that Allah Has ordained on me. My question to your Eminence: Will I be committing a sin if I leave the house and take the burden of bringing up my kids, and endure all the hardships of life, or shall I remain with him under the prevailing conditions and remains silent and indifferent to his feelings and problems?

Tags : shohar, husband, bivi, wife, bilawaja napasand kerna, hates for no reason
Mery Shohar aur Is ki Olaad ka Mujh sy Mamla Acha Nahi Hai
Mery Shohar aur Is ki Olaad ka Mujh sy Mamla Acha Nahi Hai
mai ny aik aisy mard sy shadi ki jis ki bivi 9 bachay chor kr fout hogai thi mai ny is k bachu sy maa ki tarha salook kia mager mujhy in ki tarf sy bad bakhti aur dukh ki siwa aur kuch na mila. is ki bari shadi shudah beti apny shohar k ghar sy is ki ejazat k bagair hi aajati hai ta k hamary dermiyan ikhatalafat ko hawa dy aur yh sab kuch in k baap ki ankho k samny hota raha jo azaraah zulm inhi ka sath deta tha hatta k ghar k lawazmaat mai apny khas maal sy kharidti aur is k liye mai ny apny zewaraat tak farokht kr diye magar is k bawajod mery sath acha salook na howa aur jab mamla had sy barh gya to mai ny talaq ka mutalba kr dia mager is ny issy mustarad kr dia' ab sawal yh hai k mai is admi k bary mai kia karon jo na to mujhy tariky sy basata hai aur na hi mujhy achay tariky sy farig krta hai? is shohar aur is ki olaad ko ap kia nasihet karen gay?

Tags : mery shohar, my husband, ollad, children, mamla acha nahi, do not treat reasonably
My Husband and His Children do not Treat Me Reasonably
My Husband and His Children do not Treat Me Reasonably
I married a man whose wife had died leaving him with nine children. I was to them like a mother with her own children. But all that I received from them was distress and pain. So much so, that the eldest daughter, who is married used to leave her husband's house withour his permission order to cause disagreement and problems between us.
All this would occur with the full knowledge of their father, who would unjustly take their side. I even purchased household requirements with my own money, even selling my own jewelry, but he did not repay this with gratitude. When the situation became worse and I asked for a divorce, he refused. What can I do with a man who does not treat me with kindness, and will not part from me with kindness? And what is our advice to the husband and his children?

Tags : mery shohar, my husband, ollad, children, mamla acha nahi, do not treat reasonably

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